This is also one reason why the marriage counselors advise couples to check out porn together. Every once in a while, the spark in the sex life of the marriage just goes out. In such a scenario, watching women in uniform getting fucked or watching a man being dominated by a woman can be a very erotic thing for the couple watching it on the screen. They may not actually give it a try but the fact that one partner knows that the other partner is being excited by a particular scene can make a huge difference.

The partner may subtly introduce the erotic thoughts in their sex life and that is all it takes to enjoy sex with the partner again. Of course, there is no doubt that porn is a crude, vulgar and fun form of entertainment because it is direct and brash. At a basic level, it can help us get in touch with our sense of dominance and power.

Sex is about power and politics even as it is about fun and entertainment. The fact that you are able to take care of your wife better than any other man on the planet will always boost your esteem. A good sex life will help you work out other areas where power has to be shared because you know that you are supreme when it comes to pleasing your wife on the bed.

Women have been seen as being ‘the good ones’ amongst the male dominated society for eternity. Although I can’t comment on the subjective definition of being good, women certainly aren’t those don’t like sex. They are often difficult to have a direct approach towards, but then it’s often men who don’t know how to approach them. Getting laid and having the sexual fantasies fulfilled is certainly not limited to men, women are as much sexual in their thoughts and sexual appetite – only thing is, you need to change the way you look at them and get these myths busted and washed off your heads.

Myth #1: Women are not attracted to see men naked

Absolute rubbish! Whereas intelligence, great sense of humour and a genuine smile makes women think about men in a long-term affair, they are sexually stimulated by the visually sensuous stuff too. A sight of denims sliding down the hard butts of males and outlines of a hard dick stretching the fabric of their tight boxers makes them delve into the world of lust.

Myth#2: Women hate hardcore porn

Utterly incorrect! Although there are almost no porn sites especially meant for women, a nice and erotic hardcore action excites them. And, like most guys they also like to masturbate watching erotic porn on their screens. You will be surprised to know how many women you know are into this habit of masturbating while watching hardcore porn.

Myth#3: Most women are bisexual if given a chance

The reality is, its opposite would be true. Most women are straight in their sexual orientation even if they had ample opportunities to get laid with other women. Even if most women don’t have answer to the question, What is a alpha male, they still like to go with a man who is capable of driving them to the hilt of pleasure.

Myth#4: Women don’t have sex on their mind too often

Well, some of them do have sex on their mind. Although they do not express this to others fearing that they could be labelled as a nymph, it doesn’t mean that they don’t think about sex much.

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However, this is exactly what happened when I landed at my boyfriend’s apartment only to find that he had already left to spend some time with his family. I remembered that he had informed me about his plans but it had just slipped out of my mind. My boyfriend’s roommate welcomed me and we spent time having some beer and chatting up. Perhaps it was the fact that I had not enjoyed a good bye fuck or perhaps I was plain horny. Whatever the reason, I ended up making frantic love to my boyfriend’s roommate. He was particularly amused by the fact that I came on to him and was the aggressor from the beginning.

There was a moment where I felt guilty for what I was doing but my emotions were overwhelmed by the sheer lust that I experienced. When I was leaving, my boyfriend’s roommate thanked me for his first slappers experience. That was the first time I was referred to as a slapper. Surprisingly, I was not offended. I had behaved so and he was perfectly justified in calling me the same. I just hope to do it all over again soon.

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I’m young, I’m single and I like it this way so finding that perfect someone just isn’t on my “to do” list right now. I have a pretty hectic lifestyle and don’t have time to be weighed down by the restraints of a relationship. Most people wouldn’t be so honest with themselves only to find that they have been trapped in a relationship that they never really wanted to be in.

Now just because I don’t have time for love and romance doesn’t mean that I don’t have time for sex. Sex is a good stress release and as I mentioned in my life I can do with all the stress relief I can find. So what is a person in my situation to do?

While out at the club with my friends one night the answer came to me. I was just hanging out at the bar having a beer when this lovely lady walked over to me and asked me what my name was. She said she hadn’t recalled seeing me there before, and that since she was a regular there on the weekends she knew she had never seen me before. I told her my name and we proceeded to engage in some general conversation. She asked me why I was there, since it was obvious I wasn’t there looking for love. I told her that no, I wasn’t looking for love, but I was hopeful that getting laid might be an option. She laughed and said that I was probably in the right place.

We spent the night drinking, laughing, flirting and just having a great time and before we knew it the club was closing and it was time to go. She asked me how I thought my chances of getting laid now were, since I had spent the entire night talking with her. I told her I wasn’t sure they were good, unless of course she was interested in fucking me. She laughed and told me she liked my forwardness, and that in fact she was interested.

We left the club and went back to my apartment, had another drink and started to get down to business. We must have been fucking for a couple of hours at which time I needed a piss break. When I came back in the room, my new friend was up and mostly dressed. I asked why she was leaving so soon, and she told me that while she’d had fun, it was time to go. I was a little taken back as I have been used to being the one leaving, but had to admit I admired her style.

Before she left, she gave me her number and told me that if I was in need of a good lay in the near future I should give her a call. She was my first fuck buddy experience and since then I have taken on a few more and become one to several as well. It works for me, I get all the new pussy I want and really don’t have to give anything in return. It probably makes me seem like a chauvinistic pig, but if getting laid is this easy, why would anyone want to deal with a messy relationship, I know I sure don’t.

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Porn is not a dirty word. Porn is a global economy and something we all invest in at some point or another including me!

Have you ever watched a porn movie? If you’re sitting there shaking your head in mock disgust or rolling your eyes then why are you reading this blog? Porn is brilliant! Yes, there are a lot of sick perverts out there who use porn for their own twisted ends, but there are even more normal people out there who also use porn for their own twisted ends! Porn mostly is and should be a harmless pleasure that we can all indulge in whether it be alone or more enjoyably with a partner. Friends with benefits usually find porn a complete turn on.

I’ll tell you how seriously the world takes porn. Last Thursday the world’s first 3D Digital Porn film opened in Hong Kong, and the cinemas were packed! It’s loosely based on a classical Chinese erotic literature, but no one really went to see it for the story. 3-D Sex and Zen: Extreme Ecstasy features amongst other things, graphic sex, orgies and swinging. How many perverts went to see this film do you reckon? Well if millions upon millions of people are perverts, then I guess the world is in deep trouble.

My point is, porn is part of human culture. It is something that I am learning to embrace rather then be embarrassed about. It also makes a ton of money so I have to say I’m seriously considering quitting my job and dabbling in a bit of side work in porn. I’m not sure I can ‘act'in a porno, but I would like to see if I can make a mark…if you know what I mean.

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Watching porn as a way to spice up a dull sex life is not unheard of these days. It’s actually hard to believe that in today’s age of sexual openness that there was a time when porn was considered taboo and never talked about. While there are some people that still believe that it is wrong, lewd and degrading the majority of young people have become much more open minded about it.
Sex as well as pornography have been around throughout the ages so, why is it that so many men and women are still uncomfortable talking about it or even admitting to liking it? Good quality porn is really nothing more than two or more adults engaging in the sexual activities that happen in most couples bedrooms on any given night. It is widely acceptable to use sex toys, libido enhancements or orgasm heightening lubes, but watching people have sex is still seen as forbidden.
Maybe it is because in the movies and on the internet there are more instances of group type sex that makes it difficult for people to accept, but why? How many men and women regardless of how good their relationship is wish that they had a little something extra to make sex more interesting? Whether it is simply for the sexual gratification or because being with your own partner isn’t enough for your sexual appetite, at one time or another everyone has thought about sex with another partner. That is where porn becomes so alluring to people, because a porno is nothing more than someone’s fantasy come to life on screen. Now it isn’t to say that having sex with all types of random people is the proper thing to do either. (That could be considered “swinging” and that’s another topic) But what is wrong with having friends with benefits if it truly does benefit all involved? Having an FWB is not expressly for young people just looking to get laid, it can be for anyone, including couples that want to experiment and play out their own porn fantasies. It happens more often than most think, but maybe not as much as some would like. However, if you are open minded, a little kinky and need an extra something in the bedroom, then maybe having a few friends with benefits on your speed dial is what you’re looking for to make your own fantasy come true.

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For all of my teenage years friends would rave about how they would love to have sex with two girls at the same time and how it was their ultimate fantasy. All that time I just though how nerve racking and difficult it would be to have to please two beautiful girls at the same time. I thought that I would be so scared that I would suffer from stage fright and would not be able to get hard and then they would be disappointed.
It changed my mind though when I watched some porn of men having threesomes with sexy girls. I was not interested in watching the man though, just the girls and how they touched each other and then how the man got serviced by the two of them. I imagined being able to lie back and get a blow job while the other girl would sit over my face and let me lick her sweet pussy.I figured that if I was struggling to please two girls then at least they could please each other. Just looking at three people in a bed together made me get so hard and horny.
I’m not sure where I will find two girls that want to go to bed with me though. I think that asking any of my female friends might be a bed idea so I will just have to hope that my luck is in and that I get dragged home by two beautiful vixens next time I am out in Soho, either that or I could employ the services of a London escort agency.

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